It’s time for another Tell Us About…. , a link up hosted by some lovely ladies (including me) from all over the world. You can see who they are at the end of the post and I encourage you to visit their blogs and check out what they have written for this month’s prompt.
We would love you to join in so at the end of the post you can find the link and also the prompts for the coming months. It would be great for you to link up with us and participate in the Tell Us About Link Up. I’ve put some details below for when the link up opens and dates for the diary.
Each month one of the members selects a topic/prompt and this month it is Marsha from Marsha in the Middle who has selected ‘Tell Us About….SEASONONL CHANGES
For my Tell Us About Prompts I am trying to align the prompt with my WOTY – Bloom so for this post, I’m writing about the Seasons of Life and finding Joy at every stage.
Finding Joy in every Season of Life
As we get older, the idea of “seasons” takes on a whole new meaning. Not just the seasons of nature—spring, summer, autumn, and winter—but the seasons of our lives. Each stage has its own rhythm and beauty, and if we stop to pay attention, we can find joy and growth in each one. After 50, life has a way of slowing down, giving us a little more space to breathe, reflect, and enjoy what’s happening right now. Whether we are retired or experiencing the empty nest, we have more time. Time to enjoy life and do things that enrich our souls.
But slowing down doesn’t mean stopping. In my recent Wellness Reimagined Post I wrote about the difference between Balance and Harmony and why Balance may not be achievable, despite what we may have been told. It simply means living at a less hectic pace—one that allows us to be more present, more intentional, and more open to new experiences. Life is about getting out, doing things, and embracing all the opportunities that come our way. Every season has something to offer, and it’s up to us to make the most of it.
In my a recent edition of Your Weekly Boost: Living Life in Full Bloom Newsletter, I looked at the increasing number of posts that social media keeps bombarding us with around the topic of aging—pro, anti, shoulds, shouldn’ts. We can get so caught up with ageing that we forget to live!
So why not embrace each season of life, just as we do with the changing seasons of the earth?
Letting Go of the Past and Being Present
It’s easy to get caught up in what we “should have” done or wonder about what the future holds. But just like the earth sheds its leaves in the autumn to make room for new growth in spring, we too can let past regrets and worries that weigh us down. We’ve lived through a lot, and it’s time to celebrate where we are now. Instead of wishing for things to be different, we can find satisfaction and joy in simply being present, just as we are.
Enjoying the Beauty of Every Season
Just like the changing seasons outside—spring’s renewal, summer’s energy, autumn’s transformation, and winter’s reflection—each phase of our life has its own beauty. Right now, you might be in a season of slowing down or finding a new rhythm. Maybe it’s a time for new experiences or more focus on your own well-being. Whatever stage you’re in, there’s something to appreciate. Think of it as savoring a walk through the woods in autumn. You notice the changing colors, the cool breeze, and the way the light shifts—these small moments that often go unnoticed can bring so much richness to our lives.
Nurturing Yourself, Just Like the Earth Nurtures Its Plants
In nature, every season brings its own needs: spring requires planting and growth, summer brings energy and care, autumn is about gathering and preparing, and winter offers time to rest and reflect. We too have seasons where we need to give ourselves extra care. Maybe now is a time for rest and reflection, or perhaps it’s a season for exploring new hobbies, spending time with friends, or nurturing your health. Just like the earth, we go through cycles of activity and stillness, growth and pause. Embrace what your body and mind need in each phase, knowing that rest and activity both play an important role in your overall well-being.
Growing Through Change
One of the best things about life after 50 is how we often become more open to growth, even if it looks different than it did in our younger years. Like how a garden changes as the seasons shift, we evolve too. Maybe this season is one of self-discovery or reinvention, where you’re diving into new interests or letting go of old ones that no longer serve you. Change doesn’t have to be a challenge—it can be an opportunity to bloom in unexpected ways, just as the earth does after a long winter.
Living Fully, Right Here, Right Now
If there’s one thing that the changing seasons of nature can teach us, it’s to make the most of the season we’re in.
You don’t need to wait for “the right time” to enjoy life—you can enjoy it right now.
Whether it’s a quiet moment of reflection, a spontaneous trip, or simply spending time with loved ones, this moment is yours to savour. Just like spring blooms after winter, your life can blossom at any time, no matter what stage you’re in. Every season holds something special; it’s about finding joy in the present, wherever you are.
What season of life are you in right now, and what are you learning from it? Let’s celebrate the growth, the quiet moments, and the beautiful changes, both inside and out.
Future Prompts and Dates for the Diary
April – Seasonal Changes
May – Thursdays
June – Blooming
July – Supernatural
Tell Us About Link Up
What: Tell Us About Link Party
When: Third Wednesday PM (US)/ Third Thursday 0:05AM (UK) and Third Thursday 9:05am (AEST) – SECOND THURSDAY FROM MARCH
Where: Link Party, Blog, Blog Comments, Instagram or other social media.
Who: This linkup is open to everyone BUT YOU MUST WRITE ABOUT THE PROMPT.
How: You can share in the comments, with a blog post, or on other social media of your choice. Include the hashtag so that we can find you and include your link in our posts.
The next #TellUsAbout will be Wednesday May 8 (US)/Thursday May 9 (UK & AUS). I’m looking forward to seeing and reading your take on the #Tellusabout prompt for the month.
Tell Us About….Contributors
Deb from Deb’s World (Australia) – Debbie looks at life’s changing seasons, via kids and cars, and what they teach us about growth, patience, and letting go (of both control and the steering wheel). Find Deb’s post at www.debs-world.com
Suzy from Suzy Turner (Brit living in Portugal) – Suzy writes about how seasonal changes affect her life in Portugal and shares a magical perspective by exploring the Triple Goddess archetype—Maiden, Mother, and Crone—as a way to connect more deeply with the rhythms of nature. Find her post at www.suzyturner.com
Marsha, from Marsha In the Middle – Marsha picked this topic, but she really doesn’t remember what she was thinking at the time! She writes about the seasonal changes she sees around her home and what she used to see at her home up north! Find her post at https://marshainthemiddle.com/ .
Leslie from Once Upon A Time & Happily Every After – For this month’s prompt, Leslie at Once Upon a Time & Happily Ever After shares some of the ways in which she is learning to adapt and flourish in this season of life. Find her post at https://onceuponatimehappilyeverafter.com/
Rosie Amber – Rosie chose to look at the Changing Seasons Of Life and compares them to one of her favourite trees, the mighty Oak.. Find her post at https://rosieamber.wordpress.com/
16 Comments
Great take on the prompt Sue, we all need to make the most of our time right now as you say. I love the way you’ve aligned your posts each month to your WOTY Bloom, well done for being so creative and clever!
Hi Deb, I’m not sure how long I can align my posts with Bloom but so far the prompts have certainly worked well with my WOTY. I’ve loved reading everyone’s take on Seasonal Changes. They all bring a new perspective, don’t they? x
Sue, you need to write a book. You are a gifted writer. I love how you compared the seasons of our lives to the seasons of the earth. You always inspire and amaze me.
https://marshainthemiddle.com/
Thank you, Marsha for your belief in me, although I’m not sure I have the patience to write a book. Never say ‘Never’ though.
Wise words Sue, they reminded me of a one of the books that I am currently reading, Think Like A Monk: Train your mind for peace and purpose every day by Jay Shetty.
Hello Rosie, thank you for the book recommendation. Finding peace and purpose every day – what could be better? x
Sue, this is absolutely beautiful! And it contains so much food for thought! I especially love this: Change doesn’t have to be a challenge—it can be an opportunity to bloom in unexpected ways.
Hugs
Suzy xx
Thank you, Suzy. I loved everyone’s take on Seasonal Changes this month. I really enjoy this linkup as everyone is so creative with the way they write for the prompt. Have a beautiful week. x
“This moment is yours to savour.” These are very powerful and wise words, Sue!
Hi Donna, something I’m guilty of not doing often enough – savouring the moment. It is always good to be reminded of this isn’t it? x
Your post prompted lots of reflection for me, Sue! I grew up in a three generation household when my grandparents moved in with us when I was eleven. My grandma, or G-Nana as my kids called her, lived with my parents until she was 93. What a blessing this special relationship was in my life. I remember as a child and young woman, looking at her and my mom and I remember them saying how young they felt inside. Then, as I watched my daughters grow into young women, I finally understood what these wise women meant. And now… I’m the grandma! I loved the phrase from your post – “Just like the changing seasons outside—spring’s renewal, summer’s energy, autumn’s transformation, and winter’s reflection—each phase of our life has its own beauty.” Such truth!
What a special environment you grew up in, Laura. My grandparents had all passed before I was born. I think that this way of living is so enriching to all the different generations. It’s a pity that our Western world has become so busy that older family usually spend their last few years in aged care. x
My daughters used to laugh at me because I was always saying ‘if we can just get through the holidays’ or ‘if we can just get through flu season’ or ‘if we can just get through the end of winter’ then maybe life will…slow down, be kinder, be less hectic, etc., etc. And that quiet, slower, less hectic time never arrived!! Something knew would pop up and throw a monkey wrench into the works just when I thought we might get a break.
HOWEVER, knock on wood, we are having a calm week!! I am almost afraid to say it aloud. But we have had several peaceful days with lovely weather, good health and no impending near-catastrophes looming on the horizon.
I agree we need to live fully, right here and now. And I am doing life coaching with Christie that is helping me learn to allow myself to have some fun every day and to prioritize what must be done and not beat myself up when I do cross everything off the to-do list. Also agree with what you say about being bombarded by ‘information??’ on ageing everywhere we turn. While I think it is important to try to be our best selves, I embrace my silver hair and crow’s feet. Concentrating more on my health and fitness.
Hi Leslie, I’m sure the life coaching will help as it is something just for you and in that session with Christie you are putting the focus on yourself. I’m glad you’ve had a calm week. I’ve been busy lately and this week has been less so, which I’ve really enjoyed. Take care. xx
I loved this post, as it reminds me of much of what I’ve experienced over the past several years – suddenly becoming an empty nester, moving, building a new life and counting down to retirement. I have always tended to live in the moment and try to appreciate today for what it offers, but that hasn’t been easy! There’s always something beautiful in every season though, and you said that so well. I enjoyed participating in Tell Us About this month, and have been enjoying all the posts.
Oh gosh, Kym living in the moment is one of the most difficult things to do, isn’t it? You do well to try to prioritise this. As women, we do tend to go through many seasons but appreciating the season of the moment is so important. Sometimes we don’t realise this until later in life. x